“i realized something yesterday, well i’ve always known, but to actually have a clear thought you know. a lot of girls are dumb, this isn’t my thought, it’s just a segway. but girls fall for actions…oh he texts me, oh he spends money, he gives me all the time and attention, ..and that’s how relationships fail. science shows that a correlate for why relationships end is related to dopamine levels. there ceases to be interest. people fall for the actions instead of the person. and there was something i realized about bryan. sometimes bryan repeats himself, like he’ll tell me the same study about dogs, or babies. but it’s the same information you know, or he hates words, he’s at a loss for words a lot of the time. and i know it. but i realized something. i don’t like bryan for his intelligence, or his compassion, or his jokes, or the way he opens the door or the way he never lets me pay or the way he greets strangers with kindness, even though those are beautiful aspects. i just like him for his soul, and that will never change. the other guy i had a crush on for like, what, 5 days? i liked his intuition and how he cared so much and his intelligence which are..incredible aspects to adore but i never once said those aspects of bryan, they were just add-ons. and i wish people feel like this, like you, where we love people as a their being, as their essence, not who they are to us, because i would never label bryan as my boyfriend if he were to be. he’s just the person that i love, separate from me, he’s not even my lover. he’s just the boy that appeared in my life and i fell in love with him”

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