today as i was leaving the cafe with one of my clients, he says “and remember - always look up. look up at the sky. look at the clouds, what does that say? it’s so powerful. and then look up over there, the buildings with the two lit up squares with the sky as a backdrop. and then the two trees by the building. everything is poetry”
to which i said, “yes, yes it is. and i hope you eat lovely poetry for dinner!”
ah, meaningful moments are such the beauty.
“i don’t think i was emotional until i met him. this is hard to describe. i think i reacted emotionally negatively, through shutting off and being cold or crying, but i never understood the beauty of emotions until i met him”
"HE MADE YOU ACCEPT YOUR INNER WORLD. i think before him you were afraid to feel because you were exposed to so much negative shit but you did feel. i think with him also came the acceptance of self and when you accepted the worst of you (as you perceived it) you automatically accepted the best as well. so you were just open”
I really like the INFJ-ENXP dynamic.
ENXP’s reassure that the INFJ’s Ni isn’t crazy and listens to them and helps them understand from a perceiver’s view.
INFJ’s listen to all of ENXP’s nutty ideas (Ne) and is willing to help them hone in on any idea from a Judger’s view.
XXTP’s are actually very loyal and dedicated when they are in a committed relationship contrary to popular belief.
ENXP’s are the most spontaneous of all personalities.
ENXP’s tend to be low on money no matter how much income they make.
EXTX females (ESTPs, ESTJs, ENTPs, ENTJs) are more likely to have a wide range of guy friends, get along with the guys better, and/or “be one of the guys”
It is common for XNXP’s (ENFP, ENTP, INTP, and INFP) to believe that they can accomplish their goals without having to go step-by-step, and they tend to be frustrated with themselves and societal standards because of the steps they need to reach their goal and would much rather approach it unconventionally. They see getting from Point A to Z the same as getting from point A to B and view all the steps in-between as tedious and unnecessary for success.
ENXP (ENFP and ENTPs) are the best at thinking on their feet, because they are naturals at coming up with ideas in the moment.
EXTX personalities tend to come off as emotionless, but they are not heartless in the least. They are just bad at understanding their emotions, therefore, most times, they do not express them very well, especially when it is needed in situations that involve being emphatic and patient.